I have to say that my last couple entries have been on the more fun side....to move onto something more serious- I would like to discuss the question of 'whether a boy and a girl can just be friends without any sexual tensions- connections between them"

In the movie, When Harry Met Sally, this question arises...While the movie brings to light the question -there is no real answer given because while both start out as friends it progresses to something much more, hence not answering the question of whether the relationship could have strictly been friendship.

Throughout the last couple weeks, I have come to know many individual guys....some whom I am attracted to and others not...but am friends with all. There was one instance though with a guy in which, after a quick realization that we both liked each other, we decided to keep things simple and 'just be be friends'- Everyone, knows what that means though---there will be awkwardness, attempts at trying to be friends and eventually end in the termination of the 'friendship' relationship.

I have to say that I have been trying to 'just be friends' but at the same time find it difficult to, considering the relationship status before.....So, once agian I am brought up against the question of 'Whether guys and girls can just be friends." Does such a thing exist? Even if there had been no sexual relationship, does that sexual curiousity exist in all male/female relationships?